Day 26 of 30 Days in Photos

Day 26 – A picture of something that means a lot to you

Gonna be lame here… so deal lol

 

Mainly because in the crap ass relationships I’ve been in (not all of them were bad, I did have some great ones as well!) I didn’t think I would ever have that. Not because i was on a search for a soulmate or anything like that. I have one of those. He’s gay But… I’m a total commitmentphobe. Doesn’t make the whole idea of marriage really seem plausible ya know? But yeah, I’ve made myself step back, and really look out for myself (and was on a mission to make myself stay single for awhile) and it all just kinda fell in my lap ya know?

So thats my story and I’m stickin to it

Day 19 of 30 Days in Photos

Day 19 – A picture and a letter

 

I swear I will keep up with this thing one of these days… but this post will explain the absence I had a good excuse this weekend

 

 

The boy did a good job

 

Dear Me,

You are not going to turn into a bridezilla. You are not going to rush into any details, nor take your good ol sweet flippin time. You will get boys input, whether he wants to give it or not. You will also no turn this blog into a mushy gooshy sappy wedding type blog (altho the occasional post asking for help/suggestions/opinions/ideas will be totally ok).

Suck it up and deal with the fact that you’re not having a wedding until 2012. And for those that post that “It’s about time!!” shrug off. I mean yes you have known each other for years, but you’ve only been dating for a year and a half, they’ll deal.

You can still use this time to convince the boy that its still totally worth it to buy that loft downtown/OtR

You’ll eventually also have to quit paying attention to your hand when you’re typing/daydreaming/driving/watching tv. Especially with boy around cuz he laughs at you. You will listen to ppl like your roomy and your sister, who have done the marriage thing and take their advice dammit

And lastly you’ll have fun, and it will be awesome, and remember the day is about you two, not everybody else.

Love You

 

And PS if people wanna know the story, if I get enough people wanting to in the comments, I’ll tell the story and interrupt the last 11 days