Day 19 – A picture and a letter
I swear I will keep up with this thing one of these days… but this post will explain the absence I had a good excuse this weekend
You are not going to turn into a bridezilla. You are not going to rush into any details, nor take your good ol sweet flippin time. You will get boys input, whether he wants to give it or not. You will also no turn this blog into a mushy gooshy sappy wedding type blog (altho the occasional post asking for help/suggestions/opinions/ideas will be totally ok).
Suck it up and deal with the fact that you’re not having a wedding until 2012. And for those that post that “It’s about time!!” shrug off. I mean yes you have known each other for years, but you’ve only been dating for a year and a half, they’ll deal.
You can still use this time to convince the boy that its still totally worth it to buy that loft downtown/OtR
You’ll eventually also have to quit paying attention to your hand when you’re typing/daydreaming/driving/watching tv. Especially with boy around cuz he laughs at you. You will listen to ppl like your roomy and your sister, who have done the marriage thing and take their advice dammit
And lastly you’ll have fun, and it will be awesome, and remember the day is about you two, not everybody else.
And PS if people wanna know the story, if I get enough people wanting to in the comments, I’ll tell the story and interrupt the last 11 days